Shannon Ward – Lucentio / Ensemble
We talked for quite a while today about Hortensio as a character, and how he strives (somewhat unsuccessfully) to fit into a masculine mold in order to win Bianca’s love. We discussed the pressures that men have to be “masculine.” And I started thinking about how those pressures are two sided. Much like Katharina, I struggled with fitting into a “feminine” mold when I was younger. I was unlucky in love and I blamed my looks and my tom-boyish personality. In college, I tried to become more like how I thought a girl should be. And it’s true, I turned more heads, but it wasn’t until I became truly comfortable with myself as a woman and as a human being that I was able to connect with someone who I ended up falling in love with. It all stems from an acceptance of the self. I was self-conscience of my tomboy ways in high school, and now I embrace them. I am a woman, girly or no, and I am confident and self-assured. And I think, in the end, that’s what really makes a person attractive. So maybe Hortensio shouldn’t worry so much about being all macho like Petruchio. If only he could carry his masculinity in his own way, and just keep being the badass clown he is.
We’d love to hear your thoughts and stories! When have you felt “out of sync” with the world around you? How do you feel when media and society tell you you need to act and behave and look a certain way in order to fit in?